Children do not come with an instructional guide or a warning label stating you will be raising a strong willed child. No one is able to predict what kind of temperament a child will have until the child begins to grow and the child’s temperament begins to emerge. Every child has their own unique temperaments or inborn style of behaving. Parenting actions, lifestyles, values or beliefs did not cause your child’s specific temperament as it is innate. While temperament is not directly caused by environmental factors, it does interact with temperament.
Temperament is not rigid and can be molded and shaped with guidance. Dr. Alexander Thomas and Dr. Stella Chess are the pioneers of temperament research. Through their research they identified nine characteristic temperament traits that are present in all children with vary degrees. The nine traits are:
Looking at these nine traits should be able to give you an idea of what your child’s temperament looks like. How many difficult to manage traits does the child exhibit?
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